Comments on: Do Men Enjoy Sex More Than Women?

By: Still Confused

Still Confused — Tue, 31 Aug 2010 19:01:41 +0000

First of all, @Good enough, the woman would definitely feel something from using a strap on and penetrating something. There’s such a thing as an external stimulation of the G Spot. Maybe if you did some research you would know that.

Second of all, I do think that men enjoy penetration more than women. They always seem to want it, so that must mean they really like it. I think a man probably has more nerve endings in his penis than a woman does in their vagina. But I’m not sure about that.

Thirdly, it’s really fucked up that men hold out on orgasming because they’re trying to last longer. Just relax and have fun and come already, men! You deserve it.

And fourthly, men, stop putting pressure on your women to orgasm. We can orgasm just fine on our own when we masturbate, so we don’t really need to orgasm with you. It’s a nice bonus, but it won’t happen if you keep asking us if we came. That just makes us feel defective.

By: Gary

Gary — Mon, 23 Aug 2010 05:23:49 +0000

I would assume you know your wife/girlfriend’s sex drive prior to commiting–if they’re not satisfactory then find someone else and stop being little victimized bitches about it.

My wife and I have sex anywhere from 1-4 times per day and she certainly has no problem with initiating it. On that note, I don’t get a strong urge to “fuck sexy chicks” I see all day. I get my rocks off whenever I need to with the woman I love and that’s all I really need.

By: Ali

Ali — Tue, 17 Aug 2010 05:39:20 +0000

coming to the topic…well..i’m a guy…and i’m not a sexoholic…is that not normal??then you don’t know there are many like me…i can control, i have more fun during forplay and cuddling with my wife(when i’ll be maried) rather than just penetrating her…I’m taught to respect women, dignify them, and not only think of my own desires and sex-related urges….it only depends on the culture that you come from, maybe western men are way more into sex than us because your culture is more open…i was talking to a 16 years old american girl and she asked me whether i’m a virgin or not..(i’m 21 btw)…and i said yes i’m and i don’t have any problems…she was like…WHATTTTT??…lol…the point here is…you do what you’re taught to do…ofcourse i’m a guy…i have fantasies and all stuff…but i am more like a one woman man…and there’s are tons like me i know…we all have sex drives, men and women, it’s how we use them individually…and i agree with those who said that scientifically women have way more nerve endings and sexual pleasures etc…i’m a witness to that…i have researched on it too….and i guess its okay…as far as you don’t behave like an animal…that’s all!

By: Ali

Ali — Tue, 17 Aug 2010 05:29:43 +0000

well…read each and every comment…I have only heard of the term feminist women(that they think women are better than men)…well if this is the case(I’m a muslim btw) i beieve that men and women are given prefrences on certain different areas.and they’re equal as a whole.men are stronger(that’s a biological fact), women are more neat and better with language etc etc.it doesn’t mean that if men are stronger than women physically, they’re better…or if women are made an icon of respect and dignity, then they are better than men.we’re all…as a whole…equal.different in certain areas..but equal…an example would be suppose 2 students one male and the other female gets 10 marks out of 15 in a test…the male missed out on certain questions where the female stodd excellent, and vice versa…but as a whole…they got 10 marks both…if men are made stronger than women, then it comes with strong responsibilities, they are to look after their wives and kids, manage financial matters and work most of times…(i’m talking about islam only)…but the women are given the liberty to not to do anything at all and just relax except for feeding her child…they are even not to pray during their week while men HAVE to pray regularly…etc etc…but as a whole…we’re all equal..and if somebody is given a hand over the other on a certain area, then it comes with responsibilities for them and concessions for the opposite

By: Rose

Rose — Sat, 14 Aug 2010 07:50:05 +0000

Alek and Phillip, so many of the “facts” you give (aka “women are passive and lazy” etc) are literally not at all facts. Its funny, so many boards online, I come across guys just like you dissing feminists, and every time you give the exact same statements. It gets really predictable. Its always someone saying that feminists are SEXIST because they think women are better than men (which, is something that goes against every single ideal of feminism and if you studied ANY feminist literature WHATSOEVER you would learn that no legitamate, respected feminist would ever beleive in sexist ideals that favor women over men–and yet, every single time someone bashes feminists they ALWAys use this, with no evidence, literature, ANYTHING to back it up). THey always say something like women and men are DIFFERENT, thats just the way it is!! If you went to college, or ever took a class that critically analayzed gender and gender relationships, for instance, if you had taken a SINGLE class in psychocology, you would know for certain that broad generalizations about gender, such as “men innately like sports” are actually not always biologically determined. More often than not, gender identities are shaped based on societal norms. I’m not making this up; this is basic, researched psychology information that you’d learn in the first psychology course you’d take in collage. Anyways, it always amusing to see people like Philip and Alek on these boards, talking as if they’re the smartest people here; acting like they have all the facts, stating assumptions, observations, and stereotypes about gender as if they’re absolute truths, acting as if they’re some righteous minority who knows the real TRUTH about evil feminists, when I myself, who have ACTUALLY READ feminist literature and studies feminist movements, studied sociology, and taken multiple psychology classes that focus on gender and gender identities in children, know so much more about the topics they proclaim to know everything about, and see how unintelligent they really are. Like, I’m embarrassed for them because of the way they think they’re pulling off this persona of being really smart and clever, but in reality are saying the most unintelligent things, unbacked up with any evidence. One day, the two of you should do some actual research. You’ll find that most of what you’re saying is unfounded in scientific evidence and simply common assumptions and even steriotypes. (My favorite: ” sitting around passively and waiting for men to do all the work, and then whining when you’re not as smooth as george clooney.” like, seriosuly. This guy is trying to say that his own experiences with women (lets say at most 5 women) is telling of AN ENTIRE HALF OF THE POPULATION ON THIS PLANET. HOW DOES HE NOT REALIZE HIS OWN RIDICULOUSNESS?

By: Dangitlol

Dangitlol — Mon, 09 Aug 2010 04:56:54 +0000

if you’ve done any research and learned about the female body, then you should know that women have more nerve endings in their genitals(and the rest of the body) than men do, effectively allowing them to receive more pleasure and orgasms(if done right) from sex than men can(although I have heard of men who are absent of a refractory period, thus allowing them to the reach the level of pleasure from sex women are capable of reaching)
plus women dont just have a vagina, but they also have a clitoris, labia majora aand minora, breasts , mons pubis, and erogenous zones all capable of, through stimulation, bringing women very powerful sensations of pleasure, and last time I checked, men have a penis, testicles, and a prostate(the male g-spot) and maybe a few places other than their genitals that are erogenous
but I must say, being a Christian, I believe the God originally designed both males and females with equal sexual capablity(meaning men and women were originally suppose to be able to experience equally powerful orgasms and pleasure from sex in both their genitals and entire body)
and that He originally designed male and female genitalia with equal beauty, intricateness, complexity, and detail, until Adam sinned(specifically Adam), where I feel God drastically reduced all those things in men to that of a penis, testicles, and prostate. So now a once balanced scale of sexual capability has become tipped to the female side. Dangit, lol.

By: angel

angel — Fri, 06 Aug 2010 15:12:14 +0000

im sorry but sex for women does suck.we dont need dick to cum and back in the old days we didnt need vibrators we used our finger to rub our clit duh. true to life is right only a handful of women can cum by penetration i mean come on men would you wanna have sex if you never got off by doing it? no u wouldnt its pointless i have fucked so many guys trying to get off only to have to rub myself so whats the point for a woman to have sex? only to have a baby or keep her man or some other reason we do it but not bc we like it! you no how to a guy masturbating is not as good as pussy? well masturbating is better than dick for us we dont need men. i think alot of women are starting to figure out we dont need men for pleasure or really anything else thats why so many girls are becoming lesbians bc they get what they need and dont have to do something they dnt like to keep them around.women also dont like the way guys degrade women its like damn im a whore if i fuck u and im a whore if i dont either way were called whores but men is gonna pay bc one day aint no woman gonna want them we’ll find we dont need yall and find happiness in each other.then i guess the only thing guys would be good for is like giving us back massages and serving us food and shit. just remember men can have millions of sperm in one ejaculation we can use that to give all the lesbians babies via intro-fertilization so really we dont need men at all and soon as all women realize that we will be more dominant

By: DMN

DMN — Mon, 02 Aug 2010 21:27:25 +0000

I think it comes down to compatibility & men understanding a woman’s cycle.

There is at least one week out of the month that I don’t want to be touched, for obvious reasons. Some women don’t mind, I do.

Other than that, I am a freak. My man, on the other hand, could honestly live without. For him, sex is a matter of do I have an erection or not. If yes then sex, if no, then not. For me, it’s more in my head. And I need more time & attention than just foreplay. I flirt with him, kiss him, hug him – try to show him outside the bedroom that I’m interested or just plain dig him.

He’s only interested in that activity if it leads to sex. Which makes me feel like he could give a damn about what I want or need to get to sex – just get in bed and suck nipple for x amount of time and stroke clitoris for x amount of time and can I put it in now, huh, huh?

I’m all for the quickie or even just utilitarian sex. But sometime, I need it to start slow and end up freaky and he just doesn’t have it in him. And had we known this before we hooked up, we might never have gotten together. But the big push to not explore sex before marriage is stupid because how the hell do you know you’re compatible there as well as everything else? We’re great friends, but our sex life is nil.

I feel sorry for the guy who’s balls are full of cum. You should have married me.

By: miley

miley — Tue, 13 Jul 2010 17:23:25 +0000

hy im miley and i only have 10 years old

im being asking my mom to talk to me about sex but she saids that not now but exiting to do it whith my boyfriend named justin can you tell me how to do it

By: Jagdish

Jagdish — Sat, 10 Jul 2010 17:39:56 +0000

In my country, ie India, we have a saying which in english goes somethign like “god always gives the stick to a guy who doesnt knw how to throw it”. Women get much more pleasure from sex but they dont want it. While men on the other hand are constantly trying to have sex. Lets face it ppl, its a funny world. And theres nothing we can do abt it. (Except maybe wait for those horny women robots )