2008-01-07-misinformed

This is going to be a short post because it’s a simple question: do men enjoy sex more than women?

I eat ice cream about once a month. There are people out there who eat ice cream every day. It’s reasonable to assume these people enjoy ice cream more than I do, yes?

So, if men want to have sex every day with every hot woman they see, and women only want to have sex once a month and only with that “special someone”, is it not also completely reasonable to assume that men enjoy sex more than women?

If women enjoy sex as much as men, what possible explanation is there for them not wanting to have it very often?

PS: Readers might also be interested in my other post, What Do Women Find Attractive in a Man?

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234 Comments on Do Men Enjoy Sex More Than Women?

  1. Philip says:

    @bla says: women are just as sexual as men, we just refuse sex because we don’t want to be branded as the town whore. I am a woman and I crave sex A LOT more than once a month, more like everyday. women only want sex from that ‘special someone’ because if she has sex with man who isn’t that ‘spacial someone’ she will be called a slut. I know we do;t show it, and you might not beleive me, but us women want to shag every hot thing we see at all times. I’ve only told that o a couple of my friends who are comfortable with that sort of conversation. most of them we’re brought up in a sex negative environment. also why women say no, because women are brainwashed into thinking that sex is evil.

    *sigh* This is simply not true. This man would rather have sex with this woman than be PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES, lol.

    You could brand a man as the ultimate whore of the universe, and that wouldn’t stop him from chasing tail. NOTHING will stop men from chasing tail. The idea that women are just as sexual as man is FALSE. The mere fact that such a thing as being labeled a “whore” can stop women from wanting sex is proof that they want sex less than men, since men would never let such a thing like that stop them.

    Men risk their entire careers all the time for sex. Men risk millions of dollars for sex. The porn industry is a billion dollar business, virtually all of it men. Are you really going to stand there, with a straight face, and tell me that women are just as sexual as men?

    Whatever your cravings are, @bla, they are clearly nowhere near the cravings that most men experience.

  2. Correct Answer says:

    Listen everyone!! I am one of those rare individuals who understands men and women equally well, so I can settle this once and for all:

    (MOST) MEN WANT SEX MUCH MORE OFTEN THAN WOMEN, ESPECIALLY GUYS IN THEIR TEENS AND 20S!

    (MOST) WOMEN ENJOY SEX (IF IT INCLUDES ORGASMS) MORE THAN MEN!

    WOMEN IN THEIR 30S AND 40S ENJOY AND WANT SEX MUCH MORE THAN MEN OF THAT AGE, IF THEY KNOW WHAT GOOD SEX IS!

    I think this answers everyone’s questions and objections.

  3. ababil says:

    Though famales contain more nerves than men,the nevous system of man is powerfull.Foreskin contains more nerves than clitoris.MAN does not feel painduring sex .So men enjoy sex most.

  4. pinki says:

    I am 20 year girl and a always want a hard sex infact anal sex but boy is trusted…

  5. hope says:

    am a girl, for me i don’t enjoy sex much, so men enjoy sex than girls

  6. lol says:

    It has nothing to do with being a man or a woman, it depends on the individual person’s sex drive, as well as how good the sexual experience is for both partners. Saying that men enjoy sex more than women do is ridiculous. Generally, men may seem to want sex more because of social pressure, or the constant flood of over-sexualized and objectified images of women displayed in pornography and the media.

  7. lol says:

    and to ababil: women are not supposed to experience pain during sex, so if yours is, then you’re doing something wrong.

  8. Stanley says:

    Men enjoy sex more dan a woman dia sex feelings are external while woman is internal

  9. Oyejide says:

    Yea!i am a young man of early 30′s,just excatly what some one make mentioned here,sex interest or sex love depends on individual,who want it at all the time and who don’t,but,one thing is that,it’s clear that both men and women love sex,if not so no one will have a date.

  10. Samson says:

    I believe women love sex than man.

  11. Ayodeji says:

    I think we all love to have sex always if nt all the time but with that special person. Take me for example, am always lookin forward to having sex wit my woman because she is just IT.

  12. Listo says:

    I believe girls love sex more than boyz

  13. Osueke chukwuemeka Alexander says:

    From what other people are saying, sex is good for every both boy(male) or girls (woman) but there is no particular people that love sex most, sex is liken as a lisure to the doer, man or woman may desire a lisure at any time and have it my openion is sex is being enjoy if you are in state of it or mode of it but young men of this generation are seening it as a culture what do have to be doing always likewise girls my conculution is that both loves sex

  14. Sam says:

    This is simple question and simple answer 5 women just told me now when i ask them the question they said men enjoy it most than women.sex never hot men it hot woman.2 women always afraid to have men alway want it.

  15. nnajiofor chijioke says:

    it’ s 50 -50 for both

  16. ammy says:

    i belive man love sex more than a woman,is 65-35,a woman can stay 4 a month with out sex but a man can not,if a man wnt a sex 4rm a lady nd she says no de man will behave as if he is goin 2 die in de next 10mins,or discharge u nd look 4 somebody else,.

  17. Anonymous says:

    i am young man of 27years of age. sex is psychological, it goes with the mood. both man and woman always have craving for sex. it is natural and that is why a man would release atimes without sex while lady atimes also romance themselves. but if the two party are in mood at thesame time. both of them will enjoy d the sex.but i bet you man can go extral mile forfeiting his status, standard, courtesy just to have sex. it sounds like men do want sex than women but not really.atimes lady too do lure man into sex. so it has to do with libido…….but all thesame we need to control our sexual urge…if you know you cant hold yourselve as a single lady or man, then get married that is what bible says.so you can enjoy the dividend of sex as much as you can, depends on the mutual understanding between you

  18. Tobest says:

    Am A young boy of 26 i hate sex. but i knw dat women /girls enjoy or like sex morethen we boys.

  19. am also a women n everytym when am wit my man i feel like having sex. It seems like i love sex more than my man

  20. nonofo says:

    all parties enjoy sex bt i believe ladies do it more thn we boys.man always crave 4 sex evrytym thy see any pornographic article

  21. Tonya says:

    First of all, you’re *facts* are all screwed up. Not all men do want to have sex with every hot woman they see. I mean, they are human beings, not robots, right? Men are not always in the mood, plus they do have hearts (well, most do).
    Plus, any *normal* woman is going to want it a hell of a lot more than once a month. It is laughable how little you know about what you’re talking about. How could you know how much women want it anyway? Unless you get into a woman’s head of course. You can’t tell us that we don’t want sex as much as men, you simply don’t know. Studies? PfffT! Of what, 12 people? “Lies, Damned lies, and statistics.”- Mark Twain
    Anyway, how sexual a person is is not determined by gender. It is very individual. Some men crave casual sex like you said, many don’t. Same for women.
    Not to mention craving does not correlate with enjoyment of sex. People are sexual beings, so we are always going to crave it at some point or another, whether we truly enjoy it or not (unless there is something wrong with you).
    Newsflash, women don’t let the word *whore* stop them. Real promiscuous women would never tell you anything.
    Men don’t waste their lives and money on sex. Tiger Woods? Ok. One dude. Priests at the Vatican? They sleep with little boys. Yeah, I guess that’s perfectly normal since they’re men who need their sex, right?
    Anyway, myself, I am a teen female and could go for sex just about anytime, if I’m not doing something already of course. Men are not more sexual, and vice versa. You sir, are a moron. Have a blessed day.

  22. Anonymous says:

    I want sex every day. That just seems normal to me. I eat every day why cant i have sex every day? I am a 51 year old female. I am in pretty good physical shape i guess which probably does not help as this has become a cross to bear. Sounds funny right? A healthy fit attractive woman who wants sex every day (but could live with twice a week)and can’t get it? Well guesas what? Its not. it appears to me that the whole idea that men need sex more than women is just a big fat lie!!!!! i am sick to death of men calling me names (nympho is the favourite because apparently nobody looks up the meaning of anything they accuse others of anymore – i have never had any bad feelings about having sex – just bad feelings because of NOT having sex! oh and by the way, I am not somebody who had haf sex with a lot of people either, on top of being stuck with a high sex drive i am totally monogamous and romantic. Sucks to be me, basically.

  23. Amy says:

    I really don’t have any idea, I’ve only had sex once in my whole life. Married 45 years and we had sex on our wedding night. He told me sex was nuts, disgusting, messy, no real meaning, and way to much effort for so little. He told me that sex will never happen again and here it is 45 later and no sex, in fact no nothing. He lives in our basement and I upstairs. He works midnights and I part time days and volenteer at a homeless women shelter. I have been cast aside so I eat and sleep at the shelter. I do go home to wash clothes, sleep in my own bed, and make a decent meal for myself. I really hadn’t seen my husband in a few years. We just stay away from each other.

  24. Kabul says:

    It depends how you turn on women, there is a key which is G spot, 1st. you turn women on then you will see who enjoy the most, of course women

  25. its the medias fault! says:

    ummm well mr….if your not a woman, might as well keep it quiet…what, you read just 3 articles about it and are convinced? really??? LOL who can contradict the one that had issues with her man because she craved it ten times more than he did!!!!!!???? yes, many men(not all) have a strong drive(for some, almost uncontrollable) unlike us woman have much better control of our sex drive but that doesnt take the fact that when its time for sex many woman(not all) enjoy it to the max…only little boys with little or no experience would say such non sense. sex was created to be enjoyed by both male and female. i completely agree with “lol” when they said “men may seem to want sex more because of social pressure, or the constant flood of over-sexualized and objectified images of women displayed in pornography and the media” HELLO!!! since when have you seen a penis in a movie huh? maybe just twice? but how many times have we seen womans breast and butt being sucked and bitten even in a PG-13??? not just that but even in regular shows or in the streets woman showing too much skin! i think we can finally understand why many men are more into it than woman…poor men see it everywhere everyday. i dont blame you or anyone i blame the media…

  26. y. says:

    Women can enjoy sex at least as much as men, or even more, through clitoral stimulation (the clitoris does have more nervous terminations). That, to me, is a fact. Now I’m gonna give my personal answer of why I don’t have as much sex as men do, even though I can enjoy it. I’m glad someone quote the research with the women watching straight/gay/lesbian/ape porn, having their blood flow in the vagina measured, and denying they were turned on (the data shows otherwise). It’s a perfect way to explain how I feel.
    I feel horny. By images, by actions, by anything sexual, really. But I don’t even thing of doing anything about it. It’s not that I don’t want to, it’s not that I actually don’t like sex, I actually don’t consider doing it whenever I want. Because I’m not supposed to.
    First of all, women who like sex are sluts. We can have it with our boyfriends, but we can never be too assertive or enthusiastic about it. And then, if I approach a stranger in a bar for sex, what he would think of me? And how would he treat me? I could get raped, he could use me for his pleasure only, and I would be to blame, because I seeked him. And even though I’m on the pill and we could use a condom, there’s always a nagging, evolutionary fear of getting pregnant.
    So I repress my urges. And honestly, I’m so conditioned to this that it’s become second nature. I’m quick to dismiss the thought of one-night stands. That’s why I get pissed when guys talk about their precious urges. Why they can’t just ignore them like I’m so used to ignore my own? How are they even allowed to acknowledge them when I’m not?
    Also, that’s why I like to have an emotional connection with the boys I have sex with. If he likes me, chances are he won’t abuse me, and I can count on him if something goes wrong. I’ll get lucky (in the only way I can).
    Remember, I’m not talking about anyone but myself, but I guess a lot of women can relate to this.

  27. naomi says:

    i am 13 years old and to me sexual desires are very strong and every sexy boys i see ijust want to u no like have hard sex with them and i just dont they are sooooooo many sexy boys waiting to have a girlfriend like me but i’m just waiting

  28. sandra says:

    my boyfriend always ask me to come over by his house to do some “dirty stuff” and i am willing to do it but i just dont wanna get pregnant

  29. Anonymous says:

    Ade: Personally, God created men and women to mutiplyed if not we would not be here.Sex is not a thing i love because of my practice for i found it hard to sleep with someone on same bed even when i was a teenager. i grew up in spirit and i could not sleep without receiving revelations either for myself or people near me.My late mum was concern and i told her i will adjust but it never happens when i got married.Sex is good bt we should believed that our body is a temple of God, we should not be sleeping around for the sake of sex or enjoyment which ruin the life of many men.There’s some women you will have sex with and your life will turn upside down, vise visa .We should all be careful.

  30. Anonymous says:

    I think that 4 women like to have dex

  31. Anonymous says:

    girls enjoy a lot

  32. Eva says:

    I believe that it has to do with the person, not so much with gender. I masturbate 3 times a day on average and i’m a girl. When I am with my boyfriend we have sex approximately 5 times per day. Thank god he likes it as much as I do. We’re both horny all day. But I’ve met guys that don’t feel like having as much sex as well as some girls, say because they are insecure or have different morals. But I think it’s quite the same from both sides. Women like it as much. That’s for sure!

  33. imran says:

    Only for injoy

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